Becoming a parent is one of life’s most profound experiences. It’s beautiful, exhausting, overwhelming, and deeply transformative. While nothing truly prepares you for parenthood, there are things I wish I had known that no book or prenatal class quite captured. Whether you're expecting your first child or holding your newborn right now, here’s my honest take on what I wish someone had told me. 1. The Love Is Instant, But Also Grows Over Time Everyone says you’ll fall in love with your baby the moment you see them. And sometimes, you do. But sometimes, it takes time, and that’s okay. I wish I knew that bonding can be a gradual process. You're not a bad parent if it doesn't happen instantly. It can happen instantly, within days, within months. 2. Sleep Deprivation Changes Everything It’s not just being tired. It's a fog that affects your emotions, patience, and even decision-making. I underestimated how vital sleep was and how hard it would be to function wi...